is the betrayal of thought. When we are wronged, disappointed, thrown into confusion by someone we trusted, all that, is merely the denial of what is. People are exactly as they are, and thinking that they should behave otherwise is our projection, our story in conflict with theirs.
Trusting people to behave exactly as they are, allows them to never fail. Only by insisting that they behave differently, have a different story, do we create needless personal suffering.